“THE BROKEN PIECES”

I encountered several people in my life asking these questions to self and others in several contexts..! What to do when people around us are manipulative? What to do when people around are enablers of manipulators? What to do when people don’t want to see the truth in any situation.? What to do when people…

What makes You: Values or Behaviour?

I have a friend who is a feminist. She stands for the ideals of equality. She believes in a just society where all genders can exist in harmony with no violence or aggressions. I became close to her because of this camaraderie I felt for a fellow feminist. How wonderful it is, I thought, to…

Intellectualizing vs. Experiencing.

"How much true it is today, when almost everybody sees, hears, feels, and tastes with his thoughts rather than the power within himself which can see, hear, feel and taste." - Erich Fromm ( Pschoanalysis and Zen Buddhism) Except for the evident exclusionary gender terms in the above lines, a profound truth can be understood.…

Why do we parentify our romantic partners?

Questions like "What do you expect in your romantic partner?" leads to interesting answers. One of the most common answer I've come across is, "I want to be myself around them. Someone who will accept me for everything that I am."  At first glance, this expectation seems perfectly valid. After all we don't want to…

What is Freedom?

“Freedom is a human’s capacity to take a hand in their own development. It is our capacity to mold ourselves. Freedom is the other side of consciousness of self: if we were not able to be aware of ourselves, we would be pushed along by instinct or the automatic march of history, like bees or…